How I Got My Shenmen Piercing Birthdays have always been special in our little trio - me, my wife, and our boyfriend. We’re big on surprises, spontaneous adventures, and small gestures that turn ordinary days into unforgettable memories. But this year, my birthday gift went far beyond anything I could have imagined. It wasn’t just a surprise; it was a whole experience - a warm-hearted, slightly nerve-wracking, and beautifully emotional one. So, here’s the story of how I got my new Shenmen piercing - a sparkling reminder of love, connection, and trust - and how it happened during our cozy getaway in Denmark. A Birthday Trip Full of Mystery We had planned to spend a few relaxed days in Denmark, taking advantage of the autumn calm that settles over the coast after the summer crowds disappear. The weather had that soft, golden-gray tone - a little misty, with the salty smell of the sea and the kind of crisp breeze that makes you want to wrap yourself in a scarf and sip hot coffee all day....

Truth, Courage, and the Freedom to Be When I first began exploring my identity as a a feminized husbandI realized how deeply society clings to its myths. Masculinity and femininity are still seen as opposites, and anyone who blurs that line becomes a question mark in the eyes of others. Yet the world is changing, and so are the ways men express themselves. Myths About Feminine Men In this essay, I engage with the five myths outlined by Lucy83 in her insightful article  "Top 5 Myths About Feminine Men" . I’ll explore the "pro" and "con" arguments for each myth, while weaving in my own experiences as a feminized husband - someone who lives beyond the boundaries of traditional male identity, finding both joy and strength in that freedom. Myth #1: "Feminine men are gay." What the myth asserts:   That if a man expresses traits society labels as "feminine," he must automatically be homosexual. Lucy83 writes: " Being feminine says nothing...