Reflecting on Two Weeks of Fun, Laughter, and Cozy Moments As I sit down to write this, the house is still quiet. My wife and our friend are fast asleep, enjoying the last moments of rest before our final day together begins. It’s a peaceful Sunday morning, and as the early bird in the house, I decided to take advantage of the stillness, slipping out of bed quietly to head to the Sunday bakery. There’s something about the smell of fresh buns from the oven that feels like the perfect way to start today - a day that’s both joyful and bittersweet. On My Way to a Sunday Bakery The last two weeks have been nothing short of magical. It’s hard to believe how quickly the time has flown, filled with moments that will stay with us for a long time to come. We’ve had so much fun together, from exploring the rich history of nearby towns to spending lazy, cozy days at home, enjoying the warmth of each other’s company. These two weeks have been a beautiful mix of adventure and rest, laughter and quie...

Exploring My Relationship with the Term "Crossdresser" The term crossdresser is one that I have a deeply ambivalent relationship with. At times, it rolls off my back without much thought, but at other moments, I find myself feeling irritated, frustrated, and even offended by it. The discomfort it brings me isn't just about semantics or political correctness; it strikes at the core of how I see myself, my identity, and how I wish the world understood me. For some, the term might feel neutral, or even affirming. It could offer a kind of identity label that helps others describe a part of themselves, especially within a society that loves categories and labels. But for me, it feels much more complicated than that. I don’t crossdress - I simply dress as myself . I wear clothes that reflect how I feel inside, and for some reason, this basic act of self-expression is considered "crossing" some invisible line. But why? And whose line am I crossing, anyway? This inner...

A Heartfelt Arrival After all the weeks of anticipation and the bubbling excitement of the drive to Frankfurt Airport, the moment had finally arrived. My wife and I pulled up to the terminal, hearts racing, both eager and a little nervous. As we parked and made our way inside, everything suddenly felt more real—the countless conversations about how we’d surprise him, the outfit I’d so carefully chosen, the laughter we imagined as we caught up after eight long weeks. It was all coming together in this single moment, and our hearts were full. Standing in the arrivals hall, we held hands, scanning the crowd of travelers pouring through the gates. Time seemed to slow as we waited for him to appear, the minutes stretching out as though they were testing our patience. My wife squeezed my hand gently, as if to calm the flutter of butterflies in my stomach. I could tell she was just as eager as I was—her eyes darting towards each new group of passengers, searching for the face we had missed so...

Preparing to Welcome Our Friend Home There’s a special kind of joy that comes with the anticipation of reuniting with someone dear after they’ve been away for a long time. My wife and I have been counting down the days, almost like children waiting for Christmas, as the return of our close friend from his ten-week business trip to Australia draws near. It's hard to believe he’s been gone for that long; life just isn’t the same without him around. Every little moment—his laugh, our shared jokes, the ease of his company—has been sorely missed. But this weekend, we’ll finally get to welcome him back home, and the excitement is almost palpable in the air. When someone you care about has been away for such a long time, the urge to make their homecoming extra special kicks in. We’ve both been planning ways to make sure our friend feels just how much he was missed. Of course, there will be plenty of stories to share, a million questions to ask, and lots of catching up to do. But beyond th...

The Legacy of Pleated Skirts Lives On There’s something special about revisiting the places, people, and traditions that shaped who we are today. For me, a recent visit to my mother-in-law’s house turned out to be more than just a family gathering. It became a nostalgic fashion moment, a dive into a tradition that I now proudly wear—literally. Growing up, my wife had a love-hate relationship with one particular wardrobe staple: the pleated skirt. My mother-in-law, a woman of elegance and sophistication, believed in the timelessness of the pleated skirt and made sure my wife was well-dressed in them during her childhood and teenage years. However, my wife, being a teenager with a rebellious streak, often found them old-fashioned. To her, the pleated skirts represented a style of the past—something her mom wore, not something trendy or modern. But as life would have it, fashion has its way of coming full circle. What was once considered outdated is now a trendy must-have piece, and pleat...

One Last Dance in the Sun As the warmth of the sun slowly gives way to the crispness of fall, I find myself cherishing every lingering touch of summer. This weekend, with perhaps the last hot day of the season, felt like a gift, a fleeting moment to savor before we fully embrace autumn’s arrival. It’s time to say goodbye to summer, but not without one last celebration—a final, sun-soaked hurrah. The day began with a sense of occasion, as if this wasn’t just another weekend but a cherished farewell. I reached into my wardrobe for a dress I hadn’t worn nearly enough this summer: a light, airy summer dress with a full petticoat that twirls gently when I move. There’s something magical about these kinds of dresses. They seem to capture the very essence of summer—effortless, breezy, full of life. Today, it felt even more special, knowing it might be my last chance to wear it this year. As I slipped into the dress, I felt a blend of nostalgia and excitement, like I was dressing not just for ...

Overcoming Embarrassing Moments with Grace Life has a way of throwing us into unexpected situations, moments that challenge our comfort zones and push the boundaries of our self-acceptance. For those of us who have chosen to embrace a feminized lifestyle, these challenges can be even more pronounced. Yet, it’s through these experiences that we often discover the depth of our inner pride and strength. Last week at Christopher Street Day, I found myself in one of those very situations—a moment of unexpected exposure that, while embarrassing, ultimately reaffirmed my commitment to living authentically. The Journey of Feminization: Embracing Your True Self Being a feminized husband is not just about the outward appearance or the clothes we wear; it’s about embracing an identity that feels true to who we are. For many of us, this journey begins with the exploration of gender roles, challenging societal norms, and daring to express ourselves in ways that might not align with traditional expe...